Sir Jude's Household - Sweet Surrender
Raleigh, NC
Sir Jude's Writing
Here is where some helpful tidbits will be placed as they have come up that a slave would find useful. Articles and other prose will be posted here too. In the meantime, check out Sir Jude's motorcycle traveling blog
HOW TO FIND A FEMDOM: Tips for submissives on interacting on and offline
SirJude's new book is now available as paperback or ebook and it is highly recommended for all submissives, (newbies or seasoned players) who are finding it a little difficult searching for and finding the FemDom they wishto serve.
How to Find A FemDom (paperback copy) Currently on sale for 20% off
How to Find A FemDom (ebook copy)
- A slave should never say "I can't" or "I don't know how." Instead a slave should ask Sir Jude how to do something they don't know or use initiative to research solutions.
- A slave should always ask themselves "Is this right?" "Does this belong here?" "Can I make this better?" (once inside the household this will make significantly more sense.)
- Prompted from a post in a group on FetLife to provide insight to unowned slaves who want to find the right owner. I have collected my response here and it's strongly suggested reading. Whether you are right for my household or not these are great tips to any would-be-slave so that they stand a better chance of success when they seek out an owner. Helpful Tips For Slaves
- I was following a thread on FetLife that was prompted by a user asking why it was so difficult for a submissive male to find a female Dominant. There were, of course, numerous responses, however I was particularly drawn to this one response and the poster was gracious enough to allow me to share it here. Since there currently is no section for other people's writing right now I'm placing it here until I create a better location for it. I found this post especially enlightening and love the fact it's written by a submissive. I have provided the post, unedited and strongly advise any submissive/slave interested in increasing their chances at successfully finding "the one" for them to read it as it sheds interesting light on the topic. Finding A Domme