Sir Jude's Household - Sweet Surrender
Raleigh, NC
FAQ
As questions are asked while I interview potential slaves I will post them here if I feel they'll shed light on the household or us personally. Also, you can feel free to send questions to me privately that I will answer and post here.
Q. I understand Sir Jude attends a lot of events, will I be expected to serve people at those events?
A. Typically there's no need to serve anyone at these events as most people have their own submissive or don't mind getting whatever they want for themselves. Most of the events are very relaxed and fun environments. However, you will be expected to not sit on furniture (to ensure there's plenty of seats for dominants), to get drink/food for Sir Jude and jess as they desire. You may be instructed to get things or help set-up/clean-up at Sir Jude's instructions.
Q. I understand that Sir Jude is not much into CBT/Cock-play or foot worship. I can live without these things but I was wondering if there were any exceptions?
A. Sir Jude will allow foot worship to her in the extent of foot/leg massages, jess enjoys pedicures and rubs as well. As far as things like CBT (beyond chastity devices), trampling, foot licking, drinking from high-heels, and similar activities Jude is very close to several beautiful FemDom's who enjoy these activities and my slave can/will be leant out for these purposes whether it's because the FemDom just wants someone to play with in this regard, to use at a party, to use as a demo, or whatever purposes. These are women with whom Sir Jude is extremely close to and have developed a great deal of trust with.
Q. I see you're interested in being a drag king (and that you 'pack') but what exactly does this mean?
A. A drag king is the opposite of a drag queen. It is when a biological women dresses like a male. This typically includes keeping their hair style in a "male-like" cut or using wigs and applying facial hair via various methods. Sir Jude uses her natural hair saved from haircuts and applies the finely cut pieces using spirit gum. Many drag kings love to perform, Sir Jude does not and this is more of an identity preference than an interest to entertain. By "Packing" it means wearing a specially designed strap-on that will simulate the look of a real cock. Some of these are for display purposes only while at least one design can be "semi-functional" for sexual purposes. Mostly a second strap-on (rigid) would be required for sexual encounters. The entire process can take 30 mins to an hour to apply depending on the style and intricacy of the facial hair design she's doing. There's a "Draggin" photo album in the media section for you to see Sir Jude both during the process and upon completion.
Q. I understand Sir Jude is an avid motorcycle rider, but I don't know how to ride/scared of bikes. Does that mean I cannot apply?
A. While her bike is a tremendous part of Sir Jude's life she realizes that it's *her* passion and not always someone else's. Not being able to ride or being scared to get on one will NOT disqualify you from applying. She will, however, teach every slave how the bike should be cared for and they will required to tend to the bike. Whether it's running down the stairs at the start of the rain (and this could mean in the middle of the night) to cover the bike or washing/polishing it.
Q. I live overseas but this seems like the household I've been searching for. Can I apply?
A. Those overseas are generally not accepted for a position in the household. There is a major issue with arranging various meetings that will be required prior to becoming a live-in and a complex matter of getting citizenship or other requirements for long-term stay in the U.S. that Sir Jude has opted not to get involved with.
Q. I have a disability, will I still be able to serve?
A. This is highly dependent on the disability itself. It's important to realize that Sir Jude lives on a third floor apartment with no elevators. Further, she is seeking someone who can lift objects and be able to carry things up and down the stairs. Walking the dog will also be a requirement and that will be done at a minimum of 4 times a day. Once on the ranch more physical labor will be required and more cleaning duties will be expected as it will be a larger home. This will be handled on a case-by-case basis, but if you think you're capable of providing most of the services Sir Jude seeks you are welcome to apply and the matter will be discussed in detail.
Q. If I relocate from out of state can I still keep my home/apartment from my original state?
A. Sir Jude is seeking only slaves for the household. As such, this is a long-term, permanent situation. If you're nervous about giving up your previous residence "just in case" then you're not ready to move into the household. An M/s lifestyle is built completely on trust and that must be established and solid prior to moving in. There can be exceptions made for those who own a house. This consideration is made for various reasons but will not be an option if maintaining the payments on your old house interferes with your ability to also support the household according to your equal share. It doesn't mean you are not allowed to apply but it does mean more time needs to be given to develop the relationship before live-in arrangements are considered.
Q. What will happen with all of my belongings?
A. This, too, will be handled on a case-by-case basis. Some slaves want to surrender everything including all possessions to be used or disposed of as their owner sees fit. Others wish to maintain some precious momentos. If you wish to keep belongings the slave will be responsible for renting their own storage unit nearby that these items can be kept in. Some items may be integrated into the household if they serve a function Sir Jude can use at the time. Otherwise, for items that have no sentimental value or use per Sir Jude they can be donated to various causes (depending on the items) or sold.
Q. I don't want to work outside the home once I become a slave.
A. Having an income of some kind is a non-negoitable requirement. Whether you do this via an "at-home" job, part-time, or full-time jobs it doesn't matter. All expenses will be split equally depending on how many persons are in the house. If this is unacceptable to you or you feel it will make you "less of a slave" then this is definitely not the household for you. Sir Jude intends to use slaves to their fullest extent and that includes lessening financial burdens in the household.
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