Sir Jude's Household - Sweet Surrender
Raleigh, NC
ABOUT US
Perhaps the one section that should be viewed before all others as this is the page to let you know a bit about the personalities, likes, dislikes, and other nuances of Sir Jude and alpha-sub jess.
The obvious thing to know about both is they are a lesbian couple. They were initially a D/s only couple that met through collarme's website but it quickly evolved into more. A romantic relationship soon joined their dynamic and, although they're a couple, there is always the underlying element of D/s between them. As such jess is Sir Jude's "Alpha-sub" which is a term used to denote that regardless of who else enters the home, no matter what little or vast amount of experience they have, jess will always have the highest rank. (That is, the highest rank available below Sir Jude.)
If you are interested in meeting either Sir Jude or jess feel free to explore the events they've RSVP'd to on FetLife as they are at events and groups nearly every week.
SIR JUDE
If you've jumped around the site a bit before coming to this page you might be a tad confused by the constant "male-like" references, such as Sir Jude. While Jude is a biological female she is a "soft-butch" who thinks and tends to act like a male. Therein "she" prefers male terms and honorifics. For the ladies only there is also the "Daddy" element or, rather "Dyke-Daddy." In fact, Sir Jude has recently begun to explore "packing" and "drag" or more commonly known as "Drag King," however she does not perform.
Now that all that is covered here are some basic statistics. Sir Jude is 33 years old and first entered the lifestyle at 18. Throughout the years she's entered the lifestyle in spurts and has broadened her horizons the more she learns and feels that everyone from sub to dom can provide great insight to the lifestyle and help her continue to expand. Currently Jude is very active in the local community and is a full member of groups such as FAD, Enclave, and Wingnut Stables and is also an active participant in non-member groups such as TMG and rope practice.
On a personal level Sir Jude is an avid motorcycle rider, averaging 10,000+ miles a year. (As an aside: someone who knows motorcycle repairs would be a key asset to the household). Her bike is her own transportation (although jess has a car) it is the mode of transportation she uses most often. In addition to riding she enjoys reading and focuses mostly on a handful of authors. She also thoroughly enjoys technology and her favorite "toy" is her ipad which is used frequently for reading, household management, or while riding on long trips.
More along the lines of personality or nuances Sir Jude has a tendency to become OCD. She's prone to cateloging her movie collection, meticulously editing her substiantial music collection (mp3), or even spotting the smallest of things around the house that are just "out of place." While she's extremely easy going and loves to have a relaxed, good time make no mistake that she has high expectations.
A significant pet peeve to her is someone incapable of thinking for themselves. While she understands gudiance and teaching will be required for new slaves to the household it does not mean that a slave should stop thinking. A slave should constantly be asking themselves questions all day, everyday. "Does this item really belong here or is it supposed to go somewhere else?" "I did the counter already but has someone been in there recently? Should I check it to make sure it's clean?" "Is Sir Jude's drink fresh and full or does it need ice/refilling?" "Before I ask this question have I exhausted all possiblities on my own?"
**This section will be expanded as more thoughts come to mind so check back.
Alpha-sub jess
As mentioned, jess is not just a submissive to Sir Jude but also her lover. As such, she enjoys a side of Sir that many others do not get to see and to part take in much of Sir's personal life. This includes always riding with Jude and going to family functions. Jess also gets to accompany Sir to most lifestyle events.
Despite being 25 jess has already been in the lifestyle for over 8 years and enjoys the community of which she's a part of. She attends many groups in the Raleigh area and is a full member of FAD, Enclave, and Wingnut while also being an active participant to non-member groups such as TMG and rope practice.
She has found that, although she is protocol driven, she lives for the thrill of pain from different scenes. Her favorites would be pain play and pet play. She finds that her favorite place in the house is either curled up on Sir's lap or on her pet bed next to Sir's feet.
Jess has also recently begun offering the community lap-dancing classes periodically and also accepts those interested in private lessons. These classes are held sporadically so the best way to track when the next one is would be using the events feature on FetLife for the Raleigh area.