Sir Jude's Household - Sweet Surrender
Raleigh, NC




Jude has self-published her book "How to Find A FemDom: Tips for male submissives interacting on and offline." This book is written from a female dominant's perspective on where we see so many males making mistakes, sometimes drastically, and ruining their chances at finding the right FemDom for them. Often times many of the submissives are genuine in their search and desires but are unaware of the 'impression' they're putting forth to the FemDom's they're approaching and, as a result, ruining their chances.



This book guides the submissive through the Do's and Don'ts of interactions based on the most common pitfalls I've seen submissives fall into. While this book can certainly be read by any gender submissive it does primarily focus on the male submissive. The book is littered with helpful tips, where things go wrong, how to avoid the most common mistakes, and how to help present yourself in the best possible way to help you gain better success in your FemDom search.


To purchase this book click the LuLu button for the version you want or click the standard link - they will bring you to the same place. (You will navigate to another site for the purchase) please click:

Support independent publishing: Buy this book on Lulu.How to Find A FemDom (paperback copy) Currently on sale for 20% off


Support independent publishing: Buy this e-book on Lulu.How to Find A FemDom (ebook copy)


*If the format is not compatible with your device or you have ANY trouble with the file format (since so many devices are out now all using different formats) please email me (not lulu) with your receipt purchase numbe and what format your device supports. In an effort to ensure the best reading experience for everyone I have personally re-converted the book into as many formats of ebook as I can think of in case my wonderful readers need it.


Signed Copies: Yes, I do sign copies of the book and will be more than happy to do so. Simply drop me an email on FetLife (SirJude) or Here or bring your copy to any of the multitude of events I attend.



You will find here the application for any potential slave, which must be completed for the process to begin. Further, the household manual has been supplied as a PDF format and is required reading for anyone who is seriously considering a position in the household. The media section is provided so that you can get a better visual idea of Sir Jude and her household - NO media may be used or taken from this site. Links and other resources are provided throughout the site as creating the various materials was not without extensive research. These other sources may provide useful to expand your own knowledge or to implement in your own household



While this site is not intended for sexual purposes it does contain content that is not suitable for minors. As such, by continuing beyound this page you are herein certifying that you are of legal age and sound mind to view "adult content." Some of the media may contain nudity and all those shown on this website are direct members of the household (whether they live in the home or currently external locations) and all persons are over the age of 18 and have consented to their images being posted to the site.
Further, images, media, and other information or files contained within this site are (unless otherwise specifically noted) the property of Sir Jude. As such they cannot be shared, removed, or used in any other matter unless express permission is given. If you wish to use the resources on this site for your own household citation/reference back to this site should be given.
This site is not a pay-site. It's not a free site that turns out to be a pay-site. This is not a porn site. This site does NOT collect information from its visitors. Any information YOU willingly submit via this site goes directly to Sir Jude's PRIVATE email and is kept under the strictest confidence. There may be nudity in the media section and in the writing sections may be some erotica but this is not the intention or purpose of the site. If these materials are abused they will be removed. The entire purpose of this site is provide detailed information regarding our household and any information we've learned along the way.